How Do I Get A Guy To Talk To Me?

Look at this scenario and tell me what you think
Anahi asks: "I can't get a hot guy to talk to me, no matter what I do. They only wish to talk to the really gorgeous girls, which I'm not. I'm not that ugly though, and I think I'm a pretty cool person with a lot to offer. What do I have to do to get a cute, great guy is interested in me?"
Ah, Rachel. I think most young girls ask a similar question at some point in their in their youth. Actually, that's not always true. I think we all wonder at times why, for whatever reason, some people are more attracted to other people than they are us. I've spoken to women in every age bracket with some variation of this question, so I don't think you're alone in your quest or frustration, nor do I think it an unusual one. If anything, it takes courage to ask something so raw, and for that I applaud you.
Let me give you two answers to your question that will benefit you:
(1)If someone doesn't think you're amazing, it's time to focus on the people who think you are; and
(2)Physical attraction is only one aspect of a romantic relationship, and although very important, not the only factor you need to look at when "trying to get a guy to talk to you".
Let me clarify here, starting with the first point. For those of us who aren't stunningly beautiful, who don't stop cars on the street or who don't sport movie-star looks when we roll out of bed, we have to do more than just look good to attract someone. In my opinion, that's a good thing. I'd much rather that someone found me hot because of the way my mind works, or a twinkle in my eye than my physicality. We look different as we age, and our bodies will likely not remain the same either, so if someone finds me interesting or "hot"-so to speak, I hope it's because of who I am as a person and something that probably won't change much. In turn, I look for these same qualities in anyone I've dated, because they have to sport more than just a great body or a pretty face for me to find them attractive.Yeah, something more than that.
A lot of people will disagree with me on this stance, but i agree to an extent.Not everybody thinks oh-my-gawd-he's-so-hot-I'm-going-to-puke-right-now-if-I-look-him-in-the-eye to a dating relationship. As such, I urge you to focus on two main types of people- (1) appreciate more than just your physical beauty, and (2) take on the same behavior yourself.
For those of you who feel I haven't answered Anahi's question, I'll give you one more tip that may or may not be helpful: there are few things more attractive than confidence. Work on any self-doubts you have, find your inner spark, cultivate a cheerful mindset, and make yourself happy, and men of all kinds will flock to you.
What do you think, my dear readers? Is there some magic thing you can do to make a "hot" guy talk to you, or interested in pursuing something? Have you done it, and if so, how? Or, do you disagree with my advice entirely, and think we should all strive for something different?Please place your comments below and also add whichever tip you seem to be useful-Tested and trusted